Wednesday, November 7, 2012


My Get it Right Plan of Health
Nathaniel Chaney always says.               
“The key to a long life…is not goo, but GREAT HEALTH”,
that’s what Nathaniel Chaney always says.              
Just do it: Eat right, Exercise,
 & Think Right Always!


My Get It Right Plan of Health

                                                                       
I.          Introduction                                                                                            
Why is it important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically? What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have for yourself?
            It is important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually, and physically because it helps them to better understand themselves first and then afterwards when working with their clients.  Personal experiences are very beneficial in sharing with others that we can relate to them.  We all have the choice of how we want to live our lives and how we choose to live it out depends on what we make of it.  It is a lifelong process that is usually not the same for anyone.         
The areas that I need to develop to achieve these goals for myself are in all three areas (psychologically, spiritually, and physically) along with health, happiness, and wholeness, which are the “unseen sweet essence of human life” (Dacher, 2006).  In addition, love, forgiveness, and gratefulness are critical components to wellness because they are all ways to make me feel better by knowing that I have cleared my mind of negative thoughts that are floating around inside (Schlitz & Amorok, 2005).  These concepts can be integrated in my life by making sure I take the time to love those around me, forgive those who I may have hurt, and be very grateful for all that I am blessed with.  All these areas will help in my journey along the path of integral health and well-being. 
II.        Assessment
How have you assessed your health in each domain? How do you score your wellness spiritually, physically, and psychologically?
I have assessed myself in each domain by focusing my full attention in each domain by following the six principles of integral assessment.  According to Dacher (2006), the six principles include the following:  the goal of integral health is to alleviate needless suffering and
promote human flourishing; recognize the distinction between short-term relief of needless suffering and permanent relief along with immediate pleasure and long-term flourishing,
psychospiritual development is an essential component of integral health, and integral assessment relies on deep listening and guidance along with addressing each aspect of our current situation. I first make a mental list of which area needs attention.  Depending what is going on at certain points of my life, I select an area that needs some adjusting in the specific lines of development.  Then I finally imagine the jump to the next level of development.     
            I would score my wellness spirituality, physically, and psychologically as an 8 out of 10 (10 being the highest, 1 being the lowest).  I have not noticed a big enough change to raise my number when I initially scored it of an 8.  Spirituality is a little different than how I interpreted it at the beginning.  I have come to realize though that is not exactly the same as other people or I think of it.  It is not just all religion based like one would think.              
III.       Goal development
List at least one goal you have for yourself in each area, Physical, Psychological (mental health) and Spiritual.
A goal for the physical aspect is to work on my nutrition, physical body, and exercise.  I need to take better care of myself and make the time each day to do it.  I need to keep my BMI at a healthy level for my age at 43. I have gone from 217lbs to 197lbs, and have decreased my body fat from 24% to 21%, and I have ways to go to reach my goal of, 175lbs/bodyfat 15%.       
Figure 1Dish made with whole wheat pasta, chicken, non-fat milk, and natural fresh herbs & vegetables
A goal for the psychological aspect is to focus on working on my mind each and every day to relax and calm it.   
          A goal for the spiritual aspect is to focus on loving and accepting myself the way I have been made. Acknowledging that all my experiences, relationships, and my ups/downs have made me who I am! The ultimate goal is the “Fountain of Youth”…I call it “Happiness”!
IV.       Practices for personal health
        What strategies can you implement to foster growth in each of the following domains; Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual. Provide at least two examples of exercises or practices in each domain. Explain how you will implement each example.
For my physical exercise or practice, I am going to implement a mind/body exercise where I will use my mind to enhance the results of my workout (Dacher, 2006).  While I am
exercising, I will focus my attention on my breath. I will breathe out during the exertion of the exercise, and breathing in deeply and slowly when returning to rest. I will also work on cross-training, which will involve the mind/body activities such as yoga, tai chi, qigong, the martial arts, and other types of body and energy work. Cross fit is my most dangerous challenge! It combines heavy cardio, jumping/leaping, power moves, and weight training.
For my psychological exercise or practice, I am going to implement mental training.  It can transform the mind by reducing disturbing emotions that cause anger, hatred, fear, worry, confusion, and doubt while enhancing positive emotions such as patience, loving-kindness, openness, acceptance, and happiness (Dacher, 2006).   By doing this, I have the opportunity to be designed from within myself, and not by the outside sources from my many environments, people, and ideas that have influenced me. This will also help me be a happy dad for my kids!

Figure 2 What ever I have to keep Angel & Ryan smiling I will do it!!!
For my spiritual exercise or practice, I am going to implement contemplative exercises. It will offer me the opportunity to enter into a relationship with my inner self.  Also, it will help with progressive development of an expanded consciousness and its healing capacities (Dacher,
2006). With the Loving-kindness practice, I will “open my heart to others while gradually diminishing self-centeredness where it primes my mind for further development (Dacher,
2006).”  The next practice focuses is on the three levels of the subtle mind (witnessing, calm abiding, and unity consciousness) where the “mind is opened and reveals a penetrating wisdom that knows the truth of our life and of existence (Dacher, 2006). “  I am able to focus and keep my mind calm especially in stressful situations.       
          Most of my life I have failed in this area. Anger, hurt, and insecurity, led me to selfish fearful actions. These have caused me to marry people I didn’t love, threaten to hurt people who I was jealous of, and just living an unhappy life of denial. Finding inward happiness has released these bad thoughts, and opened the door to actions of giving. I intend to grasp these new concepts to keep myself free inside, to then love on the outside.
Figure 4Smile of inner peace.
     
V.        Commitment
How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months? What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness?
I will assess my progress in the next six months by keeping track of a journal entry every day of what I do along with my thoughts even if they are positive or negative.  These entries will allow me to learn what does and does not work for me.  Strategies that I can use to assist in maintaining my long-term practices for health and wellness are to have short and long-term goals along with getting other people to try different exercises along with me.  I can teach them how to help themselves towards integral health, which in turn makes me feel good in knowing that I can help make a difference.  Also, I will start out slow and work my way to a level that I am comfortable doing and maintaining. I will use the five essential characteristics of Aesclepian healing as my foundation:
1.      Holistic
2.      Evolutionary
3.      Intentional
4.      Person-centered
5.      And Dynamic
                                      (Dacher, 2006)
       These will also gage where I am. 
     So I’m ready to dig my heels in and ne real healthy. It takes inner peace, physical discipline, and with a food intake that creates a masterpiece; a mental & physical one!!! Like Nike has said, “Just Do it!” with that I’m ready "Eat right, Exercise, & Think Right Always!”
Reference Page
Dacher, E. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic
Health Publications, Inc.
Schlitz, M. & Amorok, T. (2005). Consciousness & healing: Integral Approaches to Mind-Body
Medicine. St. Louis, MO: Elsevier.
Figure 4Smile of inner peace.
     
V.        Commitment
How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months? What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness?
I will assess my progress in the next six months by keeping track of a journal entry every day of what I do along with my thoughts even if they are positive or negative.  These entries will allow me to learn what does and does not work for me.  Strategies that I can use to assist in maintaining my long-term practices for health and wellness are to have short and long-term goals along with getting other people to try different exercises along with me.  I can teach them how to help themselves towards integral health, which in turn makes me feel good in knowing that I can help make a difference.  Also, I will start out slow and work my way to a level that I am comfortable doing and maintaining. I will use the five essential characteristics of Aesclepian healing as my foundation:
1.      Holistic
2.      Evolutionary
3.      Intentional
4.      Person-centered
5.      And Dynamic
                                      (Dacher, 2006)
       These will also gage where I am. 
     So I’m ready to dig my heels in and ne real healthy. It takes inner peace, physical discipline, and with a food intake that creates a masterpiece; a mental & physical one!!! Like Nike has said, “Just Do it!” with that I’m ready "Eat right, Exercise, & Think Right Always!”
Reference Page
Dacher, E. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic
Health Publications, Inc.
Schlitz, M. & Amorok, T. (2005). Consciousness & healing: Integral Approaches to Mind-Body
Medicine. St. Louis, MO: Elsevier.
    



       

MEDITATION WORKS!!!!!!
I chose an article by the CDC (2009) about meditation and health.  A 2007 research survey found that meditation is used by 9.4% of those who responded in a 12 month period.  According to the article’s definition,  meditation “refers to a group of techniques which may be practiced for many reasons, such as to increase calmness and physical relaxation, to improve psychological balance, to cope with illness, or to enhance overall wellness (CDC, 2009).”  Four elements that are part of most meditation techniques are the following: 
1.      Quiet location
2.       Specific comfortable posture
3.       Focus of attention
4.       Open attitude
      More research needs to be done on mediation to show how it can affect overall health.  If someone is thinking of replacing conventional medical methods with meditation, then it is best to do your research, tell your medical professional that you are doing meditation, and not postpone medical treatment.  It is not proven yet that medical treatment is 100% safe, or that it works. Faith even but only goes so far. Our physical bodies are simply that, physical. So we have to maintain our treatments, and preventive, and emergency care with our hospitals and physicians. This article was beneficial because it told me what meditation is all about, the elements that are part of the techniques, and to make sure to do research.   
I’LL ALWAYS VISUALIZE
Visualization is not just imagination; it’s actually putting you in another place so you can see what’s going on. You can see in my last post I used visualizing meeting my mom again, and I have been using it a lot at work. Visualizing has taken me to many places of change at work, and resolved issues of my soul.
Now I see that before actions are taken, we have the chance to change ourselves inside; maybe that’s what Integral Health is all about. I’m changing how I live; buy changing how I think inside.
References
CDC. (2009). CDC Features:  Meditation and Health. Retrieved from http://www.cdc.gov/Features/Meditation/?s_cid=cs_281   
 
 

Reflection & Direction


“Meeting mom again!!”
I did I exercise this week that caused me to meditate on someone I admire, and this was easy my mom. I came home from Iraq on 16 November 2006 to get a message that my mom had died. The last time I saw her I left for the Army in March of 2004, us both in tears. Being mom she said, “Nate you have to do what you have to do, I’ll be alright”. You see my mom was in a resting home at that time, and I was her conservator, I was ordered by the courts to take care of her. So when I came back from Iraq in 2006 my gift was to say goodbye to my mom. I never got to say goodbye to her, and that I was sorry when I didn’t do all I could for her, but this meditation brought her back to me.
I visualized my mom’s voice calling me, I turned around, and there she was smiling, and so happy to see me. He had a glowing light all around her, and when she hugged me we both glowed in this light. I was full of tears, mostly of pain. You see all I could think of was what I didn’t do for her. She said, “Nate you always did the best you could, you never got in trouble or gave me trouble, you worked hard, and you always looked out for your mom. I love you son, I love all my children, don’t ever be sad, just think about the good times, and know I’m watching you! You have given me two beautiful grandchildren, you go tell them that their grandmother loves them, and I’m watching them. I’m proud of you Nate, and I love you! Always! I always knew you would turn out ok; you always looked out for your mom! Always be happy for me! Smile, and sing for me, the way I did for you!” After that I wiped my tears, and she was gone. What was amazing was the sad feeling that I never could say goodbye to my mom was gone too!

"One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself."
This reminds me of our daily life in the Army; someone always wants you to do something they don’t want to do, or know how to do. There is no way we can guide someone to places of peace, or health& wellness if we have not been there ourselves. How can we say meditation, or visualizations works if we don’t know. How can I show you how to make “Rack of Lamb”, with mint sauce, if I have no recipe, and I have never made it? A health & wellness professional is a guide to a healthy life. We have to take people where we have gone ourselves

Tuesday, November 6, 2012


I did this awesome exercise today from the awesome book by Elliot Dacher:

 

“Close your eyes and let’s try this together. Rest into the ease and stillness of your

mind and body, releasing all mental activity. When quiet, ask yourself, “What aspect of

my life—psychospiritual, biological, interpersonal, or worldly—is the source of difficulty

and suffering?” Focus on this one area. What line of development is most essential

for me at this time? What is my current level of development and what can I aim for?

This is the first aspect of assessment.” (2005, page 115)

Dacher says

 

This exercise was good! Anytime I can take a pause, and meditate to see outside of the box what I’m dealing with its good. I discovered that most of my problems come from human interaction, mostly at work. I’m only happy when things are done my way, and I also feel if I don’t control everything it won’t get done right. This has caused me to be angry all the time, and has led to lots of angry outburst and arguments. Soldiers didn’t want to talk to me, or work with me after a while. So I did the following to help myself:

1.      I closed my mind to work, in a place far away from the work environment, and pictured myself on a regular work day.

2.      I found that I was only happy when I was in control. I would micro manage and take over 15 people’s individual assignment. You see in the end I wanted all the praise, so I couldn’t let someone mess that up.

3.      Success! I was removed from my work area because of an injury, and my eyes were opened. Nobody was screaming; there were tons of teamwork, and more time off. The work was getting done without all the ugly anger.

4.      I have learned to help as need, or when asked; but allow others to shine in their work, and also other supervisors to take the blame when wrong.

5.      Number 1? The world does not revolve around me.

This was a life changing exercise, and I think I reduced more stress in a week, than compared to my whole life.

Friday, September 28, 2012

Friday, September 21, 2012

Life 2day!!

My life is real
Is so good it's over flowing
Since the good things in my life, are the only things worth knowing
Some have said..or thought I can't make it..
My kinda "Right Now" mentality is just not gonna take it!!

Too many real friends got Nathaniel Chaney 's back

They know my anger gets me off track

But I'm back , no I'm born again

I gotta show Ryan & Angel Chaney(my kids & treasure) they can always WIN!!!

Get at me!!!

Black-Irish-Cherokee 4LIFE!

Nate

Ok let me tell you about Nate


 Army: Active duty 8 years in
 SGT: Cook/Baker
 Ft Bliss fav food Sushi
 Fav drink: Diet Coke or Mocha Ras Latte 
 Fav movie : Rocky the firts one
 Colleg Major : Health & Wellness and you dear?

 oh Cell # 580-215-9094

Get at me!!!!

THINK

THINK!!!


Have you really thought about all you have today? Or are you concentrating on what you don't have or want.......

Most days we don't even know how rich we really are...fully of life, and opportunity ...

I really want to thank some very special friends who were my heroes this week!!!

Jennifer Cardenas
Danielle Gole Bis
Mike G Flame Gilliam
Lynn Hart
Diana Walrath

You guys have carried me through a tough ass week!!! Thanks!! The little things each of you have done..are very large to me!!!

Nasty Nate

Saturday, September 15, 2012

Is it working?!!!!

I'm posting right now just to see if my Blog is working...Soooooo if you are one of the over 100 viewers on my Blog please comment on this!!

By the way I'm feeling awesome today......

1. I'm a few days away from filing my divorce petition
2. I have a whole day off tomorrow to catch up with school work
3. I made the most awesome Strawberry shortcakes at work
4. Finally I really got sleep for two days in a row!!!

I feel great!! How do you feel?

Nate